I am thankful…for snow!


This year has been full of blessings and adventures. In January, Clarissa and I accompanied Tim on a work trip to Hawaii. We had a wonderful week while he worked. In February and March, Clarissa and I went home to Virginia and Pennsylvania to visit both sides of the family. In April, we moved to a different city in South Korea when Tim got a new job and promotion. We have since visited Seoul and Okinawa on vacation.

This Sunday was actually a holiday in the South Korean church. The church chooses one Sunday every year to celebrate Thanksgiving Sunday where they give thanks to God for all of His blessings. It just so happens to coincide with American Thanksgiving. The service was so good. I think it was the first time we’ve had communion since we moved to Korea. After church, we had a Thanksgiving feast for lunch as a congregation. It was nice to celebrate with friends and family.

This week we took a break from our normal homeschool curriculum to focus on Thanksgiving. Clarissa and I read some books about the history of Thanksgiving. We also spent some time talking about what it means to be thankful. One of my favorite books to read with her is God Gave Us Thankful Hearts. We read 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, “Rejoice always, pray continually, give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” We talked about what we were thankful for.

The library on post had some coloring sheets that you could put together to make “My Book of Thanks.” Clarissa colored several of the pages but we have not finished it yet.

We attended a playgroup this week at Brownstone. The children were supposed to draw a picture of something that they were thankful for. This is what Clarissa drew.


When the teacher asked her about it she said, “This is the castle in Okinawa where all the knights and the king fight bad guys. But they are dead so we can see their house.” I guess she was listening on vacation when I was trying to teach her the history of Shuri Castle.

On Thanksgiving Day, Tim woke up with Clarissa so that I could sleep in. But once it started snowing, Clarissa ran in to wake me up because she was so excited. She then thought that it was Christmas (because it snows for Christmas and not Thanksgiving) and wanted to know when she could open her presents…We had turkey sausage and biscuits for brunch. By the time I was finished with dishes, the snow had melted.

We were thankful to wake up to snow this morning. I made sure to head out right after breakfast just in case the snow melted. It wasn’t a problem since it started snowing again while we were outside. Clarissa’s snow suit hasn’t arrived yet, but she lasted about an hour. We had so much fun!

We have been working on teaching Clarissa what it means to be thankful. We are so blessed and there are so many needs in the world. She helped me pack two boxes online for Operation Christmas Child. We will look through Compassion’s Gift Catalog to choose a birthday present for Jesus. We can talk about being thankful all day long, but if Tim and I are not living out contentment and being thankful, Clarissa will have a hard time learning it. So we are making more of an effort to talk about our blessings.

Enjoy! a book review…


As someone who grew up during the “I Kissed Dating Goodbye” movement of the late 90’s, all kinds of purity messages were thrown at me. I entered college thinking “sex is bad.” Or at least, to avoid any kind of physical intimacy whatsoever. Then I got married and expected the programming that I had heard for the last 10-15 years to magically disappear and be excited about sex.

Don’t get me wrong. I have been married for 8 years now. Sex is wonderful. But it took a while to reprogram my brain. I think that while talking to Clarissa about sex the conversation will be more like, “Sex is wonderful. But God designed it to be with one partner for life, once you are married.” I don’t want her to need to reprogram herself once she is a married woman.

I really liked Enjoy! The Gift of Sexual Pleasure for Women. The book is written by Christian sex therapists and published by Focus on the Family. It was helpful to read, from a Christian perspective, what a lot of women think and feel during sex. Made me feel normal instead of weird. The chapters weren’t super long so it was nice to read one night and then spend a few days thinking about what I read. It took me less than a month to read the book.


Final Reflections on Okinawa


We wanted to do one last vacation this year but had a smaller budget to do it. I started researching and found some great deals for Okinawa. We thought about an October trip but found that if we messed with dates a bit, we could save about $250 on airfare and $100 on hotels. The first week of November is technically off season.

We flew Jeju Air because it was the cheapest flight with a checked bag. It is a budget airline so the weight limit for checked bags is 15kg and your carry on weight limit is 10 kg. The customer service was great. They let us gate check the stroller. The leg room is not great. Clarissa and I were fine, but Tim was most comfortable by the window. His knees only had an inch or two from the seat in front of him. I think a tall person would have a problem. Also, you can ask for water but all other food and drinks on the flight, you need to pay for. You can bring your own food and drink though.

We originally booked a hotel in the middle of the island with an airport shuttle. When I went to confirm pick up I realized that if customs took a while we would miss said shuttle and have to wait 4 hours for the next one. Customs in Naha was super easy (less than 30 minutes from landing until we were ready to leave the airport) and we would have had time to spare to make our shuttle. But I wasn’t going to take that chance so we switched hotels to one in Central Naha that was $30 a night cheaper than the first.

Villa Izumizaki was a great place to stay. We were within 5 minutes walk of Asahibashi Station, Naha Bus Terminal, and Kokusai Street. It had a kitchenette with a sink, refrigerator, and microwave. There was a bathtub for Clarissa. The washer and dryer was wonderful! The beds were a little hard, but there was air conditioning, a balcony with a clothes line, and a couch in addition to the full size and twin bed.

I had read that public transportation wasn’t great on the island. But we didn’t want to mess with an international driver’s license or driving on the left side of the road when we didn’t know where anything was. Our hotel made it easy to access busses and monorail. The frustrating part about busses was the lack of updates. In Korea, many bus stops have a digital display where you can see what busses are coming soon and how far away they are. In Okinawa, there is a schedule that tells you what time each bus should arrive at the stop, but in our experience, busses can be 12 minutes late or 6 minutes early and you really have no way of knowing when the bus is coming exactly.

We tried a bus tour to get to a few locations on the same day. We knew we wanted to see Churumi Aquarium and Busena Underwater Observatory. It is hard to do both in the same day because they are both far from Naha and the same bus does not go to both so you have to go all the way to Naha to change busses. But we didn’t have enough time at either location to do everything we wanted to do. If I could do it over again, I would have gone on two separate days so that we could do everything we wanted to do.

Also, bring your bathing suit, even in the off season. Everything that I read said that November would require a wet suit to swim. The water was chilly, but would have been fine for swimming.

We brought yen for our trip because we wanted to stick to our budget. But most places took credit card. A few things only took yen though so you will want at least part of your budget in yen.

We were not impressed with the shopping at American Village, but the beach there was great.

Okinawa World was very commercial. Clarissa loved the Habu Museum (reptiles) and live show. I was finally able to wear a kimono. Clarissa and I both experienced our first cave. The Eisa Dance Show is more drums and folk lore than dancing. The traditional crafts village is really small and has a lot for sale.

Basically, we had some great family time so I am glad we went to Okinawa. But we don’t plan to live there or return on vacation.

If you would like to read about specific adventures on your trip, the links are included below:

Okinawa Shopping and Food

Shuri Castle

Sunset Beach and Okinawa World

Hip hop bus tour

Airport limousine bus to Incheon


One nice thing about living in Pyeongtaek is that we live closer to Seoul. It makes for a nice day trip. But the airport is actually in Incheon, not Seoul, which is at least a 2 hour drive.

On our vacation to Okinawa, we decided to try the airport limousine bus instead of messing with traffic, tolls, and airport parking. It was very easy.

We called a taxi to pick us up at about 730 and then waited at the bus stop. It is the same bus stop as the 20 bus by the main gate (in front of the Volvo dealer /Christine Realty).

The purple bus was right on time, 7:55 AM. The driver got off the bus to help us store our luggage. He asked if we were going all the way to Incheon because the bus makes several stops.

The cost is very reasonable. Adults pay 13,300 won (a little less than $13) and children pay 6,700 won so our family of 3 paid a little less than $30 to get from base to the airport which I think is great for a 2.5 hour trip. You can either pay with won (exact change) or your tmoney (subway) card.

The bus was a comfortable temperature. The seats recline. Each seat has a vent and a light. There is even space overhead to put your coat and bookbag.

On the way back, you actually buy a ticket. Once you clear customs in Incheon go straight and there is a sign that says airport limousine bus. There is even a desk for foreigners.

There are two options for your trip home. You can either take Anjeong-ri outside the main gate, or you can go to Pyeongtaek Station. The bus for Pyeongtaek Station comes more often and is the same price, 13,300 won for adults and 6,700 for children.

We chose to go to Pyeongtaek Station because the next bus was in about 50 minutes instead of the 2.5 hours we would need to wait for the bus to Anjeong-ri.

The bus from Incheon to Pyeongtaek took about 2 hours (1.5 if you are going to Songtan). The bus station was closed for the night when we arrived. After leaving the bus station, turn left (towards Daiso). In a couple of blocks you will arrive at AK Plaza /Pyeongtaek train station where there is always a line of taxis waiting.

The taxi from AK Plaza to somewhere near the Anjeong-ri gate of Camp Humphreys should cost about 10,000 won ($10).

Both busses were easy to use and comfortable. I think next time, we will see which bus fits our schedule better to decide if we will leave from Anjeong-ri or Pyeongtaek bus terminal.

Hip hop bus tour


The weekend before our Okinawa trip we booked the hip hop bus tour. It allows us to get to several places on our list on the same day and with easy transportation. It was also reasonably priced. It was about $125 for the three of us and that includes transportation as well as admissions to all of our sites today.

In the beginning of the tour, our guide handed out a headset to each member of the tour. This way, we can listen to the important information in our own language.

Our first stop was Busena Underwater Observatory. We had an hour at this location, which was enough time to use the restroom, walk to the observatory, view the fish, feed some fish, and walk back to the bus. They also had a glass bottom boat to see the coral reef from above, but we didn’t have time for both.

There was a small wait to get into the observatory and about 50 steps down. The bottom was great though. There were 16 port holes. Eight of them were adult height and eight of them were Clarissa height. The water was really clear and we could see several fish.

The bridge leading to the observatory had beautiful views of the ocean and coastline.

There was also a spot to pay 200 yen (about $2) for fish food. Clarissa enjoyed throwing the food to the fish.

The next stop on our tour was Ocean Expo Park. We had a little less than three hours there including lunch. They only took yen (not card) at the restaurant we went to. There was a dolphin show that got really crowded at the same time as the dolphin feeding experience. We waited in line to pay 500 yen ($5) to feed the dolphins. When it was our turn, the lady said, “Sorry. Sold out.” Clarissa handled it better than I did. But then one of the adults in line gave us her bucket so we gave her our 500 yen. Clarissa had a great time feeding the dolphins.

Then we headed to the big outdoor tanks for the sea turtles and manatees.

There were also a pretty place to see the beach.

Finally, we went to the Churumi Aquarium. It does have one of the largest tanks in the world. It was so crowded that it was a little overwhelming. But Clarissa loved it!

The whole time we felt rushed because we had to get back to the bus on time. There was so much more that we wanted to see at Ocean Expo Park. We thought about leaving the tour but because we didn’t take the city bus there, we had no idea how to get back without the tour bus.

The next stop was Kouri Island, which was pretty and Clarissa had a few minutes to get her feet wet. But the stop was only 30 minutes long. I think I would have preferred another hour at Ocean Expo Park instead of the time it took to get to the island.

The last stop was Mihama American Village. We were running ahead of schedule, so we thought we would have extra time there. The tour leader posted a time even shorter than what was scheduled. We decided to leave the tour since we knew how to get back to the hotel. This gave Clarissa some time to play at the beach and allow us some time for dinner before we headed back for the night.

We even got to see the sunset at the beach.

We had sushi for dinner. I was adventurous and tried some new things. I didn’t like the squid though.

Sunset Beach and Okinawa World


The busses from Naha Bus Terminal to Okinawa World only happen once per hour and we missed the the first one Wednesday. We decided to head to Mihama American Village instead. You can take either bus 20, 28, 29, or 120 to Kuwame stop (directly after US Naval Hospital).

Honestly, we were not very impressed. There were little shops for American things and a 100 yen shop (dollar store). There was also a bowling alley, a giant ferris wheel, and several restaurants. Our favorite part was the beach. I had read that we were out of season and the water would be too cold for swimming so I didn’t pack bathing suits for this trip. But I thought we could just put our feet in since it was so pretty.

I always carry a change of clothes for Clarissa anyway so I wasn’t upset that she got very wet. It took a while for her to realize that I didn’t have extra clothes for myself though. The water wasn’t that cold so we should have brought our suits anyway. Lesson learned.

We had lunch at Jai Thai. The food was really good. But the prices were high for the portion sizes. The kids meal was great though. Clarissa actually ate the fried rice (rice with scrambled egg and no sauce), French fries, and jello. I got the pineapple fried rice and Tim ordered red Curry.

We headed back to the hotel to change clothes and recharge the transportation card before catching the bus to Okinawa World (you can take 54 or 83).

Our first stop was the Habu Museum. Habu is a species of snake indigenous to Okinawa. There was a lizard that you could pet on the way in, several exhibits of snakes, and some crabs and other amphibians in small tanks.

We saw the indoor part of the museum in about 15 minutes and then headed to the live show. They offered headsets for translation but we declined thinking we would just be able to watch. It was a lot of talking so if I went again, I would take the headset.

There was a race between the mongoose and the snake. Spoiler alert. Mongoose won. Then we headed outside to see turtles, big snakes, and some bats.

Then we went to the Eisa Plaza to see the show there. I read about a dance show but it was really a drama that ended with drums. The drum part was really cool but it was loud so it scared Clarissa a little. They had big signs for no pictures so I didn’t take any.

Then, Clarissa and I headed to the cave. I have never been inside a cave before so I thought it was cool. Clarissa had a ton of questions. Looks like we need to find library books about caves next week!

The path was not at all strenuous and was about a half mile. The funniest part was Clarissa. There were some parts with a low ceiling. I never had a problem but some of my taller friends would. When we got to those parts Clarissa would say, “Mommy, you’re getting tall!”

It wasn’t really stroller friendly, but they tell you about the 130 total steps before you start. Tim grabbed some food and the stroller and met us at the cave exit. During his meal, they actually gave him some of the Habu sake that they brew there. He thought it tasted fine.

After the cave, we headed to the traditional village area. There was a small garden for growing tropical fruit. The village itself was very small and commercial, full of shopping and traditional crafts you could make.

My favorite part was dressing up in a kimono. I have wanted to do this each trip to Japan and have never gotten around to it. This time, I had to do it when I saw it. It cost 500 yen ($5) to dress up and have your pictures taken. They took 3 pictures on their camera and 3 with my phone.

After this experience, Okinawa World was closing. We ended up taking a taxi home because the next bus wasn’t scheduled to arrive for 45 minutes and it started raining. Plus it was now 6pm and we needed dinner. Our taxi driver was very kind.

We headed back to Kokusai Street for dinner and ate at Hokkaido. The food was wonderful. There was a seat fee of 300 yen per person, but it was so worth it. They kept bringing out appetizers. Our main dishes were also delicious.

Shuri Castle


When we plan a vacation, Tim usually researches the shopping (electronics) and I research the historical sites. With the shopping out of the way, we are free to explore other things.

On Tuesday, we headed to Shuri Castle. We took the monorail to the end which is the Shuri stop. Then, there are signs to walk there. It only took about 15 minutes.

The first entrance has steps, but we took it anyway because we didn’t see the handicapped entrance until we were leaving. There were a few gates to walk through to get to the visitor center to buy tickets for entry. Clarissa and I walked up the steps and Tim carried the stroller.

It was fun trying to explain to Clarissa why they might need so many steps or gates to protect the castle. I think she was also expecting to meet a princess as she was disappointed when I told her that no one lived there anymore.

The complex reminded me a bit of some of the palace complexes in Seoul. The big courtyard in the middle surrounded by buildings on all sides. The palaces in Seoul don’t usually have a stone wall around them though.

This building was really the start of the tour. You had to take your shoes off to walk through. The first building was the old residence and mostly wooden walls and a few small gardens.

The next building had some really cool artifacts that we weren’t allowed to take pictures of. The outside of the main building was being repainted but the inside was interesting. They let us take pictures in a few of the rooms.

The first room was the throne room. This is where a lot of the private ceremonies took place. Clarissa didn’t like the crown because it didn’t look anything like Elsa’s…

The next room showed where a lot of the meetings with other rulers took place. Also, Clarissa was fascinated by the floor. They showed the stones for the old castle that was burnt to the ground during World War 2. They decided to build it higher when they rebuilt it.

The last building had models to show things like coronations by the emperor of China.

It was interesting to see the history of having a relationship with the emperor of China and then being taken over by the Japanese.